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Are you prepared to pay the costs of reconciliation, Ann? That appears to be the question posed by the cards. Ask yourself if the relationship was always one-sided; did one of you get more out of the relationship than the other? The cards suggest that in order to re-start the relationship, this might depend on your ex-partner being given the better end of the deal.
The circumstances surrounding the break-up look quite traumatic and painful. The tipping point seems to have been some kind of sudden and dramatic revelation. No matter how bad it felt at the time, there is nevertheless an opportunity for insight here. Old structures have been cleared away, and amongst the ruins lies an opportunity to build things afresh. It's likely that both people in this relationship feel too stunned at the moment to know yet where they are, or whether they regret what has happened.
It’s not a happy choice that confronts you, between salvaging a new start from the ruins, or re-starting the relationship and re-negotiating your way through all those old power-struggles. But both options – the cards suggest – are open to you. The first will demand more courage and confidence. The second will test your patience and your compassion.
I wish you all the best for a happy outcome.