Friendly, person-centred readings by a practitioner with over twenty years experience.
Hello Blue Skies.
Stop and think, is what the cards advise. There have been changes in the past that have contributed to the way things are now. The process of positive change has stopped. The discomfort that you're experiencing now is a natural phase; it's that part of the cycle of change which occurs between things reaching stability and the moment when they assume a higher form. Where you are at the moment is a stage of 'decay', but it's natural – the cards suggest – rather than imposed violently from outside.
To take things forward, someone must take responsibility, and it looks as if it might be you. Although the temptation to make sudden, violent change may be there, the cards indicate that you should take a different approach. Wait. Collect yourself. Keep your temper and act from a sense of calmness and propriety.
The solution may be simpler and closer to hand than you imagine. There are indications that happiness may be brought about by providing material things – I can't say what, specifically, but think about basics that may help make life easier: such as basic pieces of equipment, or decorating someone's room, or money given to someone in order to help them attain a specific purpose – that kind of thing. Of course, these things in themselves don't make people happy, but they might form a basis on which people can build better relationships with each other.
Where the family is concerned you're currently going through an 'autumn' phase, and things may get worse before they get better. But by resisting unsteady emotions and rash behaviour, and by looking for small, material things that can make a difference, hopefully you can lead everyone through to the next, more positive phase.
Good luck!