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How will my relationship with David work out? (Karen)

Hi Karen -

There are happy times ahead; fun and happiness and pleasure. But it depends in which direction you want to take the relationship as to how things will develop. You can keep it on a pleasant, casual level, if you like, with no problem. There's a sense, however, that this is based currently on a certain degree of illusion. Most relationships are, of course, nothing wrong with that; it simply means that truly getting to know one another will entail each of you giving up some of your fantasies about the other.

You'll both come up against this question, perhaps in a few weeks or months from now. At this point, the relationship will stall. This may surprise you both, but it might be helpful to recognise it as a sign that the moment has come to decide whether to want to make things deeper and more serious, or remain on that more surface, pleasurable level.

David may suddenly begin to seem a little dour and dull when you reach this point. The cards suggest he's quite a serious person in any case; his work, and making a success of his life are both important to him. He may even turn out to be the one who initiates the move to reorganise your relationship on a more serious footing.

When you get past the first flush of happiness and hit the period when the relationship stalls, this is the side of him that you will encounter. If this part of him doesn't appeal to you, this is what you'll need to come to terms with in order for the relationship to continue and deepen. If all goes well, you'll recognise what's happening and will be able to decide where to take the relationship next, with a clear head and your eyes wide open.