Friendly, person-centred readings by a practitioner with over twenty years experience.
It seems that you could be! If you're both willing to make the right type of commitment to each other.
The reason for your uncertainty seems to lie in the beginnings of this relationship, which were inauspicious. There was no meeting of gazes across a crowded room, but instead some kind of low-key commencement, or else things began awkwardly or as a result of unfortunate events... (He didn't run into the back of your car, or something, did he?) In any case, I sense that you were thrown together in some unprepared kind of way, and it is this which is affecting you negatively right now.
For this relationship to work you both have groundwork to do, and it seems you are both shying away from doing it. You are weighing up your options constantly. Is this someone I really want to be with? you're wondering. Would I get more from life if I was with someone else? My guess is that Andrew is thinking the same! There are indications that you are both being very down-to-earth and critical in your attitude toward one another. Both of you are perhaps being too materialistic for your own good!
The cards indicate that there is potential in this relationship. It could become strong, fulfilling and intimate for both of you, but you may need to let go of thoughts about material gains for the moment, and your concerns about who's getting the upper hand or the better deal out of relationship. If you can do this, I suspect things will start to improve rapidly.
Attempting to make a deeper, more emotional connection would seem to be the most skillful way forward. This will depend mostly on communicating effectively with each other, dropping your defences and connecting heart to heart. The relationship is certainly in the balance at the moment, but it's precisely this tendency to dissect and weigh it against your other options which might be the root of the problem. The cards suggest it may be wiser to worry less about whether you're in the right relationship, and concentrate more on getting the best out of the choices you've already made.